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#feminism

i admit—

marshmallowmegamama:

it worries/distrubs me how many people are identifying with the equalists (on the legend of korra)—AND using comparisons to malcom X or the black panthers to justify that identification.

because:

1. the nation of islam and the black panthers (among many many other “power” groups) had critiques of violence. they didn’t outright mindlessly advocate LET’S BLOW UP WHITEY! they made the idea of violence more complex. or: we have the right to defend ourselves. a terrifying thing to white people who were used to the idea of lynching black people for crimes as simple as being uppity. but *still a defensive/protective type of violence*.

another example: take a look at how many power groups were either ambivalent or outright condemned the weathermen. because the underground was agressive in their violence—not using it to protect the communities they were supposedly defending—NOR were they using it to advance the needs of the community.—and yet—how much violence against communities of color did the weathermen *justify* because of their tactics?

also: look at how much of the violent rhetoric was turned internal—or: abuse of women was rampant, using the FBI to target each other was not unheard of, using violence to shut up somebody who broke from the group absolutely happened.

i feel like the comparisons of the equalists to the panthers are playing on an uneducated understanding of the critique of violence most power groups had—and really relying on 60s imagery of black men with fists in the air and gun in their hands—in a way that *decontextualizes* that image. it also plays into the conservative right narrative that suggests that the power groups were terrorists because they were all hell bent on killing whitey—aggressive violence—rather than hell bent on protecting their communities FROM whitey—or defensive violence (not sure if that is an actual name, but you know what i mean). it’s a harmful narrative to continue, and it’s not really engaging in a meaningful critique of violence either way.

2. in any conflict, there’s *always* ALWAYS a third (and fourth, fifth, sixth) option, and that option is very much like what tenzin is suggesting (but I want to hear more of before i support—is it “cut and run” or is it “finding another solution” like what aang offered?). and to suggest that oppressed people will ONLY find violent means to fight their oppression again, invisibilizes SO many people who absolutely REQUIRE that we understand them outside of the aggressor/defenseless dichotomy. see: palestinians. probably the majority of palestinians are using non-violent protest as an *extremely* political statement against their oppression—but the only thing USian’s ever hear about are the “terrorists” or the “suicide bombers.” to be sympathetic to those using violence and their reasons is one thing. to suggest that the *natural* response to oppression is violence is to reinforce a narrative that the only choice isreal (as an example) as when it comes to palestinians is to destroy them completely—because they will *always* be in an active state of aggression—because to *be palestinian is to be oppressed*.

3. to suggest that it makes sense that power is an “either/or” thing (either the benders have it or the equalists have it) is to suggest that there is no such thing as true liberation.

5. to suggest that the only choice oppressed peoples have is to be controlled/control is to suggest that oppressed peoples are more invested in “making whitey pay” than they are in “not being murdered.” again—this is a narrative steeped in white supremacy in the US.

6. I promise you—most people of color in the US would *instantly* rebel at Mr. Amon for one reason alone—he calls himself “your leader”—when what has he done to be “our” leader outside of take people’s bending away and scare the shit out of everybody at a social gathering? Do you know how much fucking shit “our leaders” take from us? and these are people who actually walked the walk a long time ago. the only reason we still put up with their asses is *because* they walked the walk a long time ago. What has Amon done to walk the walk? What has he done to show he is accountable to the community of non-benders? Has he gotten anybody jobs? (I ask this while being fully suspicious that he may have given asami’s dad his start up money) Has he gotten better housing for non-benders? Does he live within communities of non-benders? etc. how did he account for the wrath of non-benders who were subjected to the raid by hassok? who maybe lost a family member or had to bail a family member out of jail—and thinks that amon is a trouble maker who is hurting their family?

Our communities have different ways of demonstrating accountability—and declaring yourself The Leader is almost never one of those ways. Just look at how many people rebel at Jval, AM, Courtney M, Jill, etc being “The Leaders” of the feminist movement.

WHat methods has Amon used to gain compliance? Sure—benders are clearly helping him get to the point where he’s at—but just like there were earth benders who married fire benders and didn’t want fire benders to leave their lands (in the comic book, the promise), i promise you that there are non-benders who are (like pema) married to benders or mothers to benders or whatever—and are terrified of amon, and don’t want his type of “liberation” for their children or families EVEN AS THEY FACE OPPRESSION.

7. if amon is willing to take away bending to gain compliance—what is he willing to do to non-benders who don’t obey? this is should be the number one question at all times for anybody who is thinking through violence, violent resistance, etc. if the person who has declared himself “your leader” is willing to shoot your enemy, what is he willing to do to you? if he is willing to rape your enemy, what is he willing to do to you? if he is willing to punish people who he thinks deserve it—what is he willing to do to you when YOU deserve it?

this is why so so so so many power groups in the 60s were about defense and doing it violently if necessary—but were MORE about building strong able loving communities where power existed in multiple complex spaces—this is why intersectionality and a “shifting lens” was formalized into academic lingo. because they recognized that power existed not as “one ring to rule them all” but as a spider web on multiple paths in multiple directions. violent overthrow wouldn’t work because it *didn’t fracture power*—or: it only hits *one* site of power (ex: the US still exists even in a post-911 world).

if your leader is willing to execute your enemy in a stadium in front of everybody AND HE HAS THE POWER TO DO SO—then that means he HAS THE POWER TO DO IT TO YOU TOO. being on “the same side” has never saved anybody from shit.

8. I could go on and on as violence/organizing tactics is an important issue to me.

but i’ll wrap it all up just by saying—for heaven’s sake—feel sympathy for non-benders. you can even feel sympathy for the equalists. but PLEASE. challenge and interrogate the seemingly “natural” response to violence. and most of all, challenge and interrogate the need to understand the equalists through the lens of power movements in the 60s. because without doing that, it is FAR too easy to be sloppy and draw on decontextualized and simply *wrong* narratives about the power movements as a means to satisify our idea of what an oppressed person *should* be (which oddly, usually looks like something on a t-shirt, rather than a tired person who enjoys watching mad men and nail polish and who every once in a while manages to get down and lick some stamps for their local grassroots org), rather than what they ARE.

It feels audacious to add anything to MMM’s commentary, but…i think to straight up draw analogies about US racial dynamics is a boring interpretation. It turns Avatar into the equivalent of all those sci-fi shows where aliens = people of colour. And the creators are too smart to do that, I think; they’re deliberately imagining a world without whiteness — how colonialism, nationalism, etc. would look in a fundamentally different setting, and where the end goal is returning balance to the world rather than the decisive triumph of good over evil. I’m not saying don’t talk about racial parallels in Avatar though; I mean, when you start thinking “so and so represent white people” think about the absence of whiteness in Avatar. It’s got to be more interesting than “equalists are the black panthers” or whatever.

ignore this if it makes no sense, it’s 2 a. m. and i wrote this all without my glasses

A Pony on the Balcony: My Complicated Mourning (re Adrienne Rich) »

poemsofthedead:

DO NOT READ THE ONE COMMENT UNLESS YOU WANT TO FEEL COMPELLED TO PUNCH REPEATEDLY IN THE FACE THE NEAREST WHITE WOMAN.

But I really enjoyed/appreciated this post.

Also, a thought on this part:

Does it matter? Yes. It matters because we salute her contribution, but if she had spoken out against the inclusion of African-American women or suggested that Jewish women or Latinas were somehow less than human, we would talk about that. We would critique that.

Because I do not know the author, but I wonder (out loud to my cat, even), “WHO IS THIS MAGICAL ‘We’???” Because… well… because that shit happens ALL THE TIME still today and a whole lot of feminists do NOT speak out, do not critique it, and actively uphold it. So I’d really really love it if well-meaning people didn’t act like the world has it’s racist shit together and trans* issues are “the new racism” or whatever.

yeeeeeeeeeeeah that was where I stopped reading because I fucking hate that argument.

“if someone said that about black people”

NEWSFLASH! THAT SHIT GETS SAID ABOUT BLACK PEOPLE ALL THE TIME AND NO ONE GETS CALLED ON IT

I’M SORRY, YOUR CONNECTION TO REALITY IS TOO TENUOUS FOR ME TO CONTINUE PAYING ATTENTION TO YOU

  • [Redacted]: So I saw The Hunger Games today, and it wasn't what I expected. I thought it was going to be like The Running Man as told by Gloria Steinem.
  • Me: That's funny, I've read a lot about the series but I didn't see anyone mention that it was particularly feminist.
  • [Redacted]: Oh, what were you reading?
  • Me: …Angry posts by radical women of colour on Tumblr. What were you reading?
  • [Redacted]: …The Star?
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feminismfreedomfighters:

breaklitehearts:

Captain Picard-I love you. That’s all.

Reblogging becuase it’s Captain Picard.

MAKE IT SO.

*cranky* Can we all at least agree to start by shunning the men we know mistreat women? Don’t say hi to them in the street. Don’t invite them to your parties. Don’t hire them. Tell your friends not to take their classes or go to their talks. Oh, you only know them online? Great. Don’t link them. Don’t post uncritical interviews with them. When someone brings them up positively, bad-mouth the shit out of them. Googlebomb them like they were Bill Napoli. Don’t let these snakes dare call themselves feminists.

midwestmountainmama:

my heart just stopped. i just read on a feminist site a (presumably) feminist say “What’s the point of feminism if feminists don’t believe people can change?”—and this was said about a man who attempted to murder a woman, who has abused women, who has slept with women students, on and on and on and on….

What’s the point of feminism if feminists don’t believe men who try to murder women people can change?

i feel as if i should go out into baby sugg’s field and apologize to all the women who have fought and died for gender justice.

That, and

what is the fucking point of feminism if you can’t count on other feminists to have a woman’s back, shun the fuck out of a dangerous slimy predatory douchebag, kick him out of the community, and make his name dirt?

I mean I thought that was the whole point of the thing

Yeah this is why I don’t call myself a feminist anymore


Context, context, context, context, context, more context (check comments for great responses from bfp, Nanette, La Lubu, saurus, piny, etc.).

Feminist marriage is a three-way contract between two women and government. Most women will have children, and few women can afford or will go to the extreme of using artificial insemination to achieve pregnancy. Government is the automatic third party collecting “child support” entitlements for children born in these marriages.

Children will be born of extramarital affairs backed by welfare guarantees and child support entitlements. Feminist marriages are automatically entitled with many tax-free, governmental income sources for having children.

Feminist marriage is a marriage between any two women and the welfare state. It constitutes a powerful feminist takeover of marriage by government, and places the NOW in the position of dictating government policy as a matter of “feminist Constitutional rights.”

Feminist marriage will be far more attractive to women than heterosexual marriage. Sexual orientation does not matter when two women marry and become “married room-mates.” They can still have as many boyfriends as they want and capture the richest ones for baby-daddies by “forgetting” to use their invisible forms of birth control. On average, a feminist marriage will have at least four income sources, two of them tax-free, plus backup welfare entitlements.

Feminist marriage is government-sponsored serial polyandry, uniquely enriched by one or more substantial income sources not available to the other two planned subordinate classes of marriage.

The Center for Marriage Policy : Why Same-sex marriage is unconstitutional

I don’t think I ever got this memo, you guys. I can’t believe you would plan something like this without telling me.

(via greaterthanlapsed)

This reminds me of the people who are convinced there are cities on the moon. Points for creativity, I guess.

(via robot-heart-politics)

What…. what planet is this person on??? O.o;;;

(via jhameia)

Did anyone else skim through this and think it sounded like a lot of fun?

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animalstalkinginallcaps:

STOP TELLING ME TO ‘CHECK MY PRIVILEGE’ AND LISTEN TO WHAT I’M SAYING! WE’RE SUPPOSED TO HAVE SOLIDARITY AS WOMEN! IT’S THIS KIND OF PETTY INFIGHTING AMONGST POCS AND WHITES THAT PREVENTS US FROM MAKING PROGRESS IN THE FACE OF GENDER-SPECIFIC INSTITUTIONAL OPPRESSION! WE CAN’T WORRY ABOUT HOW DIFFERENT RACES EXPERIENCE THE TYRANNY OF THE PATRIARCHY! OUR OPINIONS AND SUFFERING ARE DIFFERENT BUT THEY ARE ALL EQUALLY VALID! IT’S ONLY MEN’S OPINIONS THAT DON’T MATTER! YOU HAVE TO SEE THAT!

Nice, but not clueless enough. Clearly the OP has not spent enough time in the feminist blogosphere.